At the present time, although the Oscars have ended for a while, the noise and consequences after Will Smith’s “cheek stroke” Chris Rock are still lingering. Although he is a famous action star and a rare black artist who has achieved achievements in all 3 fields of film, television and music, at home, the actor is an exemplary husband and father.
Once “stormed” by his 2 million-like flattery article, Will Smith also received many criticisms, being said to not know how to teach his children when “letting children decide everything “ . However, at the present time, Mr. and Mrs. Smith have received a lot of support because of their different but very reasonable way of raising children in this day and age.
The talented but rebellious children of the Smith family
When revealing how to raise their children, the Smith family has received a lot of irony and criticism when promoting the freedom of their children. In fact, the children of Will Smith and his wife have repeatedly been involved in noise because of their liberal, somewhat lethargic image. Right from the age of 8, little Willow Smith surprised many people when she was far from the image of a gentle “princess” like other girls her age, but instead had a thorny, personality image.
However, her strange appearance and different hairstyles were still nothing when she was 13 years old, the Smith girl made the internet “surprised” when she was caught in a scandal with her boyfriend, actor Moises Arias . As soon as they were posted, Will Smith and his wife faced a wave of fierce criticism from the online community because of the inappropriate images of their daughter.
Worth mentioning, facing a wave of public criticism, Will Smith’s wife Jada Pinkett surprised many people when she expressed confidence and pride in the way her children were raised. “I want my children to be happy and to be themselves,” she insists . Not only Willow, but her younger brother Jaden also made many people bored.
Once considered a “genius” in Hollywood when appearing in many hit “blockbuster” as well as being appreciated for his acting ability. However, his talent also comes with many scandals.
Before the displeasure of public opinion, like his wife, Will Smith also expressed his support for the children despite all criticism and dissent. Not only speaking, but Jaden’s strangeness makes him the center of attention every time he appears. If his sister is dusty and thorny, he is not afraid to wear a dress to appear at the event.
While people are still stirring because of his son’s different appearance, Will Smith once said that his son is never afraid and is ready to do anything. Because of that, he was never banned by his family, but always lived to the fullest with his passion and artistic ideas.
Before all the scandals of their children, Will Smith and his wife still absolutely believe in their children and maintain their views on educating their children. The actor confided, “You can’t protect your children from everything, but give them a fulcrum of a loving and supportive family. Accepting your children to live as they are is wonderful. the best you can give your child.”
Let your children decide their own future
In a sharing with the press, when faced with criticism as well as being accused of not knowing how to raise children, Will Smith said that he still maintains his educational views. He confided: “As a father, of course I am very worried but I still support my son to the end, because only then can he live as himself.” It is known that the reason for his “ignoring” method of parenting is because his childhood was often imposed.
Therefore, he always creates conditions for his children to grow up the way he wants. He also emphasized: “As a parent, if the child is an oak tree, I want him to grow up like an oak tree, not trying to force my child to become an apple tree.” Although the actor’s parenting style is mixed with mixed opinions, it is undeniable that the Smith family has created Hollywood’s unique children.
Let your child take responsibility for his or her behavior
Although it is a fulcrum to promote children’s creativity, let them do what they like and never punish them, but instead, Will Smith and his wife let children be independent and responsible for their decisions. me. At the present time, punishing children is still controversial with parents when each family will have a different choice, but the Smith family has a different choice when it comes to letting children take responsibility. for his behaviour.
This will help the children soon realize their mistakes and correct them and learn from them for the next time. Maybe, not only children but also adults have many mistakes at times, but the important thing is when the child realizes the mistake and does not repeat it. Jada Pinkett revealed: “I want to give my children the opportunity to make mistakes and learn to correct and set boundaries for themselves. Everyone makes mistakes, the important thing is the lesson we get later. That will help us not to make the same mistakes again.”
Respect your children as adults
Maybe in the public eye, Will Smith’s “warm boy” are rebellious children, but undeniably, these are children who understand and respect their parents absolutely. To achieve this, it was the actor and his wife who had to create a balanced relationship between parents and children for them to truly develop. He adopts the method of treating his children with respect and sharing stories like adults.
In return, children will respect their parents and strengthen family relationships when they are treated fairly. Will Smith shares the view: “We respect our children the way we would respect any other person. We also talk to our children like adults so they understand how to treat anyone. Everyone in this society is rooted in respect.”
Love you unconditionally
The last and most important factor is the fact that the Smiths love and trust their children unconditionally. Reality proves that even though the children are entangled in a lot of noise, no matter what, both Will Smith and his wife stand up for and affirm their absolute trust in their children. The actor said, “Parents cannot protect their children from everything. But if we give our children a family that loves them unconditionally and always gives them absolute support, then of course that is the case. It’s the best thing a child could want. Because in the end, as an adult or as a child, the last thing we need to succeed is love and encouragement.”
Currently, although the Smith family’s educational method is still a topic of debate on social networks because of the difference, it is undeniable that the actor’s two children have achieved achievements without relying on names. parents’ age.
Meanwhile, Jaden is the inspiration of the LGBTQ+ community. As for the decision to wear a skirt, the actor himself said that this was not an act of rebellion, but something for him to convey the spirit of freedom, go beyond the “safe zone” as well as not afraid to be bullied and ridiculed. . While his sister achieved achievements in the field of fashion, he also became a perfect “copy” of his father when he roamed in fields such as movies, music, and production. When he was 15 years old, he earned his own money to buy a house and was completely independent.
